12 Steps That Make Up My Actual Hair Care Routine

People ask me for my hair care routine like I’m going to reveal some secret twenty-step regimen. Honestly, it’s simpler than that, and the order actually matters more than the products. Here’s what I follow and what I walk clients through.

Twelve steps, in the order I actually do them.

Pre-Wash Oil Treatment

Before shampoo ever touches your hair, I apply a lightweight oil to the mid-lengths and ends and let it sit twenty minutes. It’s a small step that protects hair through the whole wash.

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[IMAGE 2] Applying oil before wash, hair care routine

Double Cleanse the Scalp

One light wash to clear surface buildup, then a second wash with real lather focused on the scalp itself. Your scalp is skin, it deserves an actual cleanse.

[IMAGE 3] Double cleanse scalp, hair care routine step
[IMAGE 4] Shampooing scalp, hair care routine

Deep Condition Weekly

Conditioner on the lengths and ends, mask once a week with a little heat from a warm towel to help it actually absorb. This is the step people skip most and miss most.

[IMAGE 5] Deep conditioning mask, hair care routine step
[IMAGE 6] Warm towel deep condition, hair care routine

Leave-In and Seal

Leave-in conditioner on damp hair, then a small amount of oil to seal it in. This combination is doing more work for your hair’s moisture than any single expensive product.

[IMAGE 7] Leave in conditioner application, hair care routine
[IMAGE 8] Sealing oil, hair care routine step

Sleep on Silk

Everything you just did gets undone by a cotton pillowcase overnight. Silk or satin, every single night, non-negotiable in my routine.

[IMAGE 9] Silk pillowcase, hair care routine step
[IMAGE 10] Satin bonnet, hair care routine

Trim on a Real Schedule

Every eight to twelve weeks, not “whenever I remember.” Ends that split just keep splitting further up the strand if you let them go too long.

[IMAGE 11] Regular trim, hair care routine step
[IMAGE 12] Trimming split ends, hair care routine

Complete the Routine: More Hair Care Ideas

Want quick standalone tips instead of the full routine? See 12 hair care tips I give every client who asks. Which step are you missing right now?